[SPARK-58375][BUILD] Upgrade ap-loader to 4.5-13

[dongjoon-hyun]

What changes were proposed in this pull request?

This PR aims to upgrade ap-loader dependency to 4.5-13 for Apache Spark 5.

Why are the changes needed?

To bring the latest bug fixes and improvements from ap-loader.

• https://github.com/jvm-profiling-tools/ap-loader/releases/tag/4.5-13 (2026-07-21)
  • https://github.com/async-profiler/async-profiler/releases/tag/v4.5
    • Fix vtable test failures on JDK 27 async-profiler/async-profiler#1765: JDK 27 support
    • Span API async-profiler/async-profiler#1755: Span API for latency profiling
    • JVM application pauses when using asprof async-profiler/async-profiler#1406: Long time-to-safepoint pause when attaching asprof
    • Runtime attach fails on JVMs with many native libraries async-profiler/async-profiler#1756: Runtime attach fails on JVMs with many native libraries
  • https://github.com/async-profiler/async-profiler/releases/tag/v4.4
    • Differential Flame Graphs async-profiler/async-profiler#1553: Differential Flame Graphs
    • An option to limit size of the call trace storage async-profiler/async-profiler#1705: memlimit option to limit size of the call trace storage
    • Fix Zing crash with async profiler 4.2  async-profiler/async-profiler#1715: Fix Zing crash when profiling cpu+wall together

Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

No.

How was this patch tested?

Pass the CIs.

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[dongjoon-hyun]

Thank you, @peter-toth !