Add name filter to metrics

[gabotechs]

Which issue does this PR close?

• Closes #.

Rationale for this change

Precedes #23720.

While displaying a plan with metrics, allow filtering them by name, not just by category or type.

This is very useful when writing snapshot tests where only a specific metrics needs to be asserted, without other unrelated metrics polluting the snapshot assertion.

What changes are included in this PR?

While displaying metrics, allows filtering them by name

Are these changes tested?

Yes, by a new small test.

Are there any user-facing changes?

People using the metrics display API will be able to filter metrics by name.

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Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 60.78431% with 20 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
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Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
datafusion/physical-plan/src/display.rs	36.66%	16 Missing and 3 partials ⚠️
datafusion/physical-expr-common/src/metrics/mod.rs	95.23%	1 Missing ⚠️

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